I love my friends and church family so I write the following with a pastor's heart of compassion. Pornography is a destructive world-class Devil's Pit weapon. Truth be told the majority of men both Christian and not-Christian view pornography at some point in their lives. Many view it with regularity and find themselves in a shameful magnetic downward spiral that they both hate and enjoy. Funny, no one wants to talk about things like porn and masturbation even though they are common temptations and sins; maybe we're too polite to be honest and help each other grow towards holiness.
Pastor Mark Driscoll from Mars Hill Church in Seattle has just released
a free E-book that you can read online or download pdf. I challenge you to take 30 minutes to sit and read it if you are a guy or a gal who sometimes views porn, masturbates frequently or a parent of an adolescent teen boy - (As a 24 year youth worker I found that 99% of the Christian teenage guys I was working with had regular or sporadic bouts with porn / masturbation.)
As a pastor, my heart for my friends is that each person would examine themselves, move towards holiness and live honestly with one another in the area of sexual purity. Shame and secrets suck the joy out of life, the Truth sets us free. Get free, stay free - you are loved by Jesus even when sex sins drag you into a dark pit.
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